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ITS THE JOURNEY THAT MATTERS!





 Every individual is different, containing various skills and talents utilised for betterment. The essential factor that differentiates human beings is the experiences had in their lifetime. Individuals with more hardships and worst disappointments reach higher levels of success, for instance- Steve Jobs. You might think this is a radical claim.



Let me explain! Success is a destination. The end product of but the process, making of the product is the journey, "Focus on the journey, not the destination" this quotation has been thrown around a lot lately and I completely agree with it. 

The end product or the goal is what people desire and focus on.  But most of their time is spent on repetitive processes day in and day out with consistency. Perfecting every nuance along your journey takes you to success. Success is an endpoint it will be spoken from some time and eventually people will forget it, while the journey that you have been through where you have gained numerous experiences, which could potentially be used for other situations. Experiences learnt to extricate you as an individual from others. The author of one of the most influential works in the field of psychology called Man's Search for Meaning - Viktor Frankl. States " Don't aim at success... For success, is like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue".  Success cannot be forced, it is part of the system that is in progress, to reach success faster, various tweaks need to be made to your system, with every repetition. On the other hand, trying to get work done with high intensity but not consistently will affect the system,  results that you expect will not be achieved, high intensity is something humans can handle for a shorter duration of time. Eventually leading to burnout that may require a herculean amount of time to recover. 

In conclusion, try to create a system that is highly sustainable in a long run that suits you and does not deviate you from your goals. 

- Jeshurun

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